The science of sexual attraction is a complex beast well above my comprehension, but I do know this. Sexual attraction inside the Lifestyle and outside the Lifestyle is very different.

Sexual compatability is the name of the game in the Lifestyle. Ranking far above abs, great legs, big tits, perfect lips, and an ass you can bounce a quarter off of is sexual compatability. Sure, all of the aforementioned qualities play a large role in sexual compatability for some some couples, but even more important are things like attitude, confidence, intelligence, wit, and all thing persona!

As an individual we have specific features that turn us on or turn us off. Things like sexy bare feet, broad shoulders, blonde hair, sensual kisser, round ass, etc. These are qualities and images that may trigger a sexual urge in us as an individual, but swinging is not a solo sport!

When a couple swings, they are not necessarily blindly trying to please some individual need or desire. As a couple, they are working to increase the intensity and enjoyment of their sexual relationship as a pair.

This may be done in part by finding that sexy blonde that is a great kisser, but it is more often accomplished by finding that right individual or couple that represents fantasies and desires while at the same time keeping comfort levels high and the chemistry strong.

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