As you may have noticed, there have been a lot more parties in the past two months than ever before. Besides Behind Closed Doors, which is our flagship event aimed at young, very attractive couples and single women, we are holding XXXtreme Events on a monthly basis, which are open to select single men as well as couples and single women, and just launched More to Love catering to voluptuous women and the men who love them. Even more specialty events are coming within the next two months.

 

 

As you may have noticed, there have been a lot more parties in the past two months than ever before.  Besides Behind Closed Doors, which is our flagship event aimed at young, very attractive couples and single women, we are holding XXXtreme Events on a monthly basis, which are open to select single men as well as couples and single women, and just launched More to Love catering to voluptuous women and the men who love them.  Even more specialty events are coming within the next two months.

I wanted to create a party where women of all shapes and sizes, especially those who are very voluptuous, would feel comfortable.  So I launched "More to Love".  Our very first event kicked off--well, during the Superbowl kick-off.  At about half-time, the ladies and I decided to cheer on the New Orleans Saints in our own special way.  Rocco and I made our way over to the play area and started getting frisky.  Our new friends joined us.  A handsome gentleman whom I shall call "Jeremy" laid adjacent to us on a bed.  I walked over to him and smiled as I...

The lifestyle is about not only be open with sexuality but being open minded.  At any given club or party, you (or your partner) may not be into everyone in attendance.  Swingers may be selective, which means that preferences are key.  Some people are into voluptuous women while others prefer a very fit figure, for instance.  Others may have a preference for blonds or brunettes.  That's natural and perfectly normal.

Most women, and many men, are extremely self-conscious about their bodies.  Fear of getting naked, and consequently being judged by others, may be one of the single most popular reasons that people avoid swinger parties.  It's true; it can be extremely daunting to undress or perform in front of a crowd -- especially when most of the other guests look like models!  That situation holds actually true at very few...

After a few month hiatus, XXXtreme Events made quite a comeback on Saturday night!  Produced by School of Sex, I was intimately involved in building the guest list for the party... which meant a multitude of hot young studs for the ladies in attendance to choose from.  The XXXtreme party lived up to its name; things got WILD -- which is exactly what you get when you combine insatiable, horny ladies with gorgeous, hung gents.

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While hundreds of thousands of New Yorkers piled into Times Square to watch the ball drop in the bitter cold, a much hotter (both figuratively and literally) party was going on in midtown Manhattan.  And, yes, it was Behind Closed Doors!

As popular as ever, Swing School started off the night.  Through the informal discussion, we helped introduce the lifestyle to the gorgeous couples who were excited to learn more.  "I went to a swing party just the other week...  everyone just sat around like an awkward high school dance," a sexy 20-something commented.  She was excited to see that everyone present at the BCD party was attractive, open-minded, and friendly.  You could really feel the intense, positive energy in the air.

I've noticed a trend over the past few years. It's cool to be a swinger again. Perhaps we have reason to thank the surge of off-premise parties for this resurgence, or maybe people are really becoming more sexually liberated in this country. After all, in 2007 there was even a prime time television show on CBS entitled "Swing Town."

 

But what is a swinger? It is someone who is sexually curious, like a woman who wants to experience another female? How about couples who go to off-premise parties to dance half-naked and take dozens of pictures to show how wild and cool they are? I would argue that none of those people are swingers. Swingers are people who have sexual encounters with numerous people who they are not in a relationship with. But does oral still count as a sexual encounter? According to President...

November's Wall-of-Shamer is a guy I met at a recent party I hosted. At first, the man seemed fine; he was outgoing and full of compliments. However, after one too many drinks, a jerk emerged. He began offering suggestions as to how I should run the event -- from mixer games to what type of porn I should play. I always appreciate suggestions, but he wouldn't leave me alone! He also didn't seem to understand that I don't force hookups at Behind Closed Doors events. Instead, I let things happen organically. If there is chemistry, couples and single ladies can figure it out! In fact, I told him how much I despise games that force you to hook up with someone you have absolutely no attraction to.

 

I told him, "Look around, have you ever seen a hotter, or friendlier, crowd at any...

My email box has been flooded with inquiries from Behind Closed Doors guests as to whether Tiger Woods was in fact at one of the Behind Closed Doors sex parties earlier in the year.  I can neither confirm nor deny that Tiger Woods attended any event due to our strict privacy policy.  It is extremely important that I protect the identity of each and every BCD guest.  When it comes to celebrities, I am even more cautious because I do not want to fuel media frenzy or endanger the anonymity of the rest of my guests.

I typically instruct celebrities that wish to attend our events to come...

This week's question comes from ADICKted. She asks,

Dear SK, I have been a regular at the XXXTreme Events parties for women that love multiple men. However, I have not been able to attend recently because I have a new boyfriend and I'm not sure how to introduce the idea of swinging to him. I don't want to scare him away because I really like him. But, I keep craving multiple cock. The sex he and I have together is incredible-don't get me wrong. But, the idea of playing with multiple men and being the center of attention really excites me. I am constantly fantasizing about it. How do I tell my new boyfriend that I'm addicted to gangbangs and MMF threesomes? ~Adickted

For those readers who are not familiar with Girls Uncorked, I will explain a little about it. Girls Uncorked is a nationwide organization of straight, bi-curious, bisexual and lesbian women who are sexually curious, open-minded, and looking for a great place to socialize with like minded women. While many of the members of Girls Uncorked are swingers or enjoy having sex with multiple partners, we are always welcoming of women who have fantasized about being with multiple partners or are simply curious.  Meetings are 100% free; women merely bring their own wine or appetizer. I know what you're thinking:...

I know you readers have been waiting for a good, juicy Wall of Shame post so here it is.  A man who shall herein be called "the clown" came to a pre-Halloween private party accompanied by a good friend of mine.  The party was small, about half a dozen couples.  I was told that the clown had previous experience with group sex in an orgy situation, and was attractive. However, more important than experience or looks is one's attitude.

As soon as the clown arrived to the party, he started to act like an annoying frat boy. I excused his peculiar behavior for...