AC/DC | Person who enjoys both same sex and opposite sex sexual activity; Bi; Bisexual. | | ADULT | Euphemism for pornographic. | | ANAL | Anal intercourse; Greek; Greek Culture. | | ARTS | Euphemism for fetishes; Cultures | | B&D | Bondage and discipline (see BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE) | | BBW | Big Beautiful Woman; Referring to women that may not be their ideal weight, but are still very attractive. | | BI | Bisexual: Versatile (see AC/DC) | | BI-CURIOUS | A Male or Female who is interested in trying same-sex activities. | | BIZARRE | Unusual sexual desires | | BONDAGE | A sexual fetish in which restraints such as ropes, chains, cloth or leather straps are used to bind, tie or hold a participating sexual partner. The person doing the binding is considered "dominant" while the person being bound is considered "submissive." | | BUKAKKE | A fetish where a girl, or girls, occasionally a guy, lies naked and lets, or helps guys masturbate and ejaculate over their naked bodies. | | CAN ACCOMMODATE | Advertiser willing to invite others to their home for swinging. | | CAN TRAVEL | Advertiser willing to travel to your home to swing. | | CANING | A spanking fetish employing a light cane usually bamboo or other light wood. | | CHEATING | Sexual activity with others without spouse's knowledge and/or consent. | | CLEAN | Hygienic; Free of sexually transmitted diseases. | | CLOSED DOOR or CLOSED SWINGING | Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms so that partners of a marriage or other intimate relationship do not visually observe each other's swinging. The rooms are almost ways in the same house/hotel. | | CLOSET SWINGER | A person who hides the fact that he/she is a swinger. (see DISCREET) | | COUPLE | In swinging, a man and a woman. May be married, living together (cohabitating), committed (on going relationship) or a single couple dating for swinging purposes. | | CULTURE | Euphemism for Fetish, Arts. | | FRENCH CULTURE: | Oral sex | | GREEK CULTURE: | Anal sex | | ROMAN CULTURE: | Sexual orgies | | SWEDISH CULTURE: | Use of the hands especially in massage to sexually stimulate another | | CUNNILINGUS | Stimulation of the vagina and clitoris by the mouth especially the tongue and lips, and sometimes the teeth (see FRENCH CULTURE) | | DILDO | An artificial penis, usually made of rubber or plastic, for sexual stimulation of the vagina and sometimes the anus. | | DIRECTOR | The term used to describe the principal person who runs or otherwise operates a swing club, generally the owner. A person who works for the director and is responsible for party or club operation whether or not for pay, is generally called a Manager. | | DISCIPLINE | A sexual fetish in which one partner dominates the other, a willing participant. Often includes physical punishment of the submissive partner, ranges from physical restraint to mild spankings to painful beatings. | | DISCREET OR DISCRETION . | Asking those who write or call to exercise caution so that children or others who may open mail or answer phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the swinging activity | | DOCILE | Willing to receive bondage and/or discipline (see SUBMISSIVE). | | DOMESTIC TRAINING | Submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate and humiliating nature. | | DOMINANT | A sexual partner in control of a willing submissive partner. | | EXHIBITIONIST | A person who is sexually stimulated by being seen or watched by others while showing sexual portions of the body or engaging in sexual acts. | | FELLATIO | Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth. | | FETISH | Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non-sexual objects, actions or non-genital anatomy. | | FLAGELLATION | Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking | | FUN AND GAMES | Euphemism for sexual activity. | | GAY | A homosexual person, male or female. A gay female may also be called a Lesbian. | | GBM | Gay Black Male | | GENEROUS | Refers to money for sex. | | GROUP ROOM | Room set aside for group sex, generally furnished with wall-to-wall mattresses or pads. Term is prevalent in western US (see MATROOM). | | GROUP SEX | Swinging; Sexual activity between three or more people. | | GWM | Gay White Male | | HARD CORE | A swing party or swing engagement where sexual interaction is assumed and expected. | | HARD SWINGING | (see HARD CORE) | | HEAD | Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" | | HEDONIST | Someone who lives for pleasure. | | HETEROSEXUAL | Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex. | | HOMOSEXUAL | Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. (See GAY) | | HORNY . | Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure | | HUNG | Refers to a man with a large penis. | | HWP | Height-Weight Proportionate; Someone who is at their ideal body weight. | | INDOOR SPORTS | Swinging activities in general. | | INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP | Seeks a swinging relationship that includes emotional and recreational values. | | IRL | In Real Life; Used in ads or online chat | | ISO | In Search Of; Used in ads; MWC ISO Single Female | | LEATHER | A fetish; Sexual stimulation through the wearing of leather garments. | | LESBIAN | A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women. (see GAY) | | LTR | Long Term Relationship | | MARITAL AIDS | Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of self and others. | | MASOCHISM | Sexual gratification through receiving pain and humiliation from others. | | MASTER/SLAVE | Participants in a bondage and discipline sexual relationship. (see B&D, BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE) | | MATROOM | Room set aside for group sex. Principally an eastern US term (see GROUP ROOM). | | MEET FOR PLEASURE | Will meet for swinging sex; no pretense for social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity | | MENAGE A' TROIS | Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex in a swinging interaction. May involve an on-going emotional relationship of the participants. {see THREESOME, TRIAD) | | MORESOMES | More than three people in a swinging interaction. | | MBC | Married Black Couple | | MBiC | Married Bisexual Couple | | MWC | Married White Couple | | NEWCOMERS | New people in swinging; First-timers | | NONSMOKER | Does not smoke. If used in personal ad means only those who do not smoke are sought for swinging purposes. | | N.S.A. | No Strings attached. | | OPEN SWINGING | A couple swinging with another couple in the same room; Several or all participating couples together in the same room; (Western U S) swing party where participants socially mix and are free to swing as couples, in one-to-one pairings and group sex during the progress of the party | | ORGY | Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room; group sex. | | PARTY | Gathering of three or more people of both sexes for swinging. | | PARTY CLOTHES | Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party. The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-arounds and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play. | | PASSIVE | Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. Docile and submissive in swinging. (see DISCIPLINE) | | PHOTO | Interested in exchange of nude or sexually explicit photos of self with similar photos of others. | | PHOTOGRAPHY | Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with similar photographs, slides or movies of others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs. | | PRO | Professional; i.e. prostitutes or paid escorts. | | RECREATIONAL SWINGER | A person who practices swinging primary as a recreational diversion with no desire for emotional attachment. | | RESTRAINT | Mild bondage used in sexual fantasy enactments. | | ROMAN | Group sex, orgies, the party scene, etc (see CULTURE, ROMAN) | | RUBBER | Condom means of contraception; sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D. | | SAFE | Used to describe a person who cannot conceive or impregnate; a man who has had a vasectomy. | | S.A.E. | Self-addressed stamped envelope. | | SBF | Single Black Female | | SBiF | Single Bisexual Female | | SBM | Single Black Male | | S&M | Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM). | | SINGLE | A swinger without a partner, single or married. | | SOCIAL | A party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no swinging at a social, but privately arranged swinging may follow a social. | | SOCIAL SWING CLUB | A swing club, generally private membership that offers social and swinging activities including a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. They may also offer educational and travel activities. Usually there is a membership fee and either party fees, party donations or a regular maintenance fee or dues. Party attendance may be restricted to couples though the marital status of the couple is rarely important. | | SOFT SWINGING | The term used to describe same-room sex, watching/being watched, or any sexual encounter up to, but not including intercourse, with someone other than your spouse. The first experience for many couples some type of soft-swinging. (see HARD SWINGING, HARD CORE). | | SRS | Same Room Sex (see SOFT SWINGING). | | STD | Sexually Transmitted Disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many. These social and moral implications interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem. | | STR or STR8 or STRAIGHT | Any person who is not interested in same sex sexual activity or A person who does not use drugs. | | SWAPPING | Two couples exchanging partners for sexual activity. | | SWF | Single White Female | | SWING MAGAZINE | A periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually carries personal ads of people wishing to meet others for swinging purposes. May also publish articles of general interest to the swinging community | | SWINGING | Social-sexual relational recreation among men and women. It is a couple oriented activity but single men and women sometimes are involved. | | SWINGING LIFESTYLE | Style of living with swinging a major component in recreation, choice of friends, business and social life, and intimate relationships. | | SWINGING MARRIAGE | Marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic ideals. | | SWM | Single White Male | | SUBMISSIVE | (see PASSIVE) | | THREESOME | Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a swinging encounter. Not the same as a "menage a' trois" in that the latter may involve emotional involvement and a continuing relationship. | | TICKET | A person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party solely to enable the male to gain entrance. The ticket generally has no intention to swing or is not free to swing. | | TOYS | Sexual aids (see MARITAL AIDS) | | TRAVEL | (see CAN TRAVEL) | | TRIAD | Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome. | | TRIOLISM | Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD) | | TUBAL LIGATION | Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the fallopian tubes to make a woman infertile. Also called a Band Aid Operation in reference to the small incision made just below the navel to enable the cutting and ligation. | | UTOPIAN SWINGER | A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals. | | VASECTOMY | Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the vas deferens to make a man infertile. | | VERSATILE | Bisexual. (see AC/DC) | | VIBRATOR | Electrically run vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another. | | VOLUPTUOUS | Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips. | | VOYEUR | A person who enjoys watching others in sexual acts. | | VWE | Very Well Endowed - a very large male organ. | | W/E | Well Endowed - applies to the male organ - the average size is about 6" long and about 5" in girth when erect. W/E is anything greater than this. |
Here are some terms commonly used in the swing community as well as others. You are more likely to use/see these terms in the context of personal ads or messages posted to a message boards. These are by no means the only terms swingers use but they will give you a better understanding of what is meant when you see them. AC/DC
Person who enjoys both same sex and opposite sex sexual activity; Bi; Bisexual. ADULT
Euphemism for pornographic. ALL CULTURES
Person or couple who enjoys all fetishes and sexual activities (see CULTURE) ANAL
Anal intercourse; Greek; Greek Culture. ANIMAL TRAINING
Sexual activity with animals usually dogs and women; Bestiality ARTS
Euphemism for fetishes; Cultures B&D
Bondage and discipline (see BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE) BESTIALITY
(see ANIMAL TRAINING) BI
Bisexual: Versatile(see AC/DC) BIZARRE
Unusual sexual desires; Way out BONDAGE
A sexual fetish in which restraints such as ropes, chains, cloth or leather straps are used to bind, tie or hold a participating sexual partner. The person doing the binding is considered "dominant" while the person being bound is considered "submissive." CAN ENTERTAIN
Advertiser willing to invite others to their home for swinging. CAN TRAVEL
Advertiser will travel to your home to swing. CANING
A spanking fetish employing a light cane usually bamboo or other light wood CHEATING
Sexual activity with others without spouse's knowledge and consent CLEAN
Hygienic; Free of sexually transmitted diseases CLOSED DOOR
(see CLOSED SWINGING) CLOSED SWINGING
Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms so that partners of a marriage or other intimate relationship do not visually observe each other's swinging. The rooms are almost always in the same house CLOSET SWINGER
A person who hides the he/she is a swinger. COUPLE
In swinging, a man and a woman. May be married, living together (cohabitating), committed (on going relationship) or a single couple dating for swinging purposes; CPL CPL
Couple CULTURE
Euphemism for Fetish, Arts ENGLISH CULTURE:
Sexual stimulation from spanking or caning FRENCH CULTURE:
Oral-genital sexual activity. GREEK CULTURE:
Anal-penile intercourse ROMAN CULTURE:
Sexual orgies SWEDISH CULTURE:
Use of the hands especially in massage to sexually stimulate another. CUNNILINGUS
Stimulation of the vagina and clitoris by the mouth especially the tongue and lips, and sometimes the teeth (see FRENCH CULTURE) DILDO
An artificial penis, usually made of rubber or plastic, for sexual stimulation of the vagina and sometimes the anus DIRECTOR
The term used to describe the principal person who runs or otherwise operates a swing club, generally the owner. A person who works for the director and is responsible for party or club operation whether or not for pay, is generally call a Manager. DISCIPLINE
A sexual fetish in which one partner dominates the other, a willing participant. Often includes physical punishment of the submissive partner, ranges from physical restraint to mild spankings to painful beatings DISCRETION
Asking those who write or call to exercise caution so that children or others who may open mail or answer phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the swinging activity. DOCILE
Willing to receive bondage and/or discipline (see SUBMISSIVE). DOMESTIC TRAINING
Submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate and humiliating nature. DOMINANT
The sexual partner in control of the willing submissive partner ENTERTAIN
(see CAN ENTERTAIN) EXHIBITIONIST
A person who is sexually stimulated by being seen or watched by others while showing sexual portions of the body or engaging in sexual acts. F
Female FELLATIO
Sexual stimulation of the penis by the mouth, especially by the tongue and lips and sometimes teeth. FETISH
Sexual arousal and pleasure through use of non-sexual objects, actions or non-genital anatomy FLAGELLATION
Sexual stimulation derived from pain, usually whipping or spanking FUN AND GAMES
Euphemism for sexual activity GAY
A homosexual person, male or female. A gay female may also be called a Lesbian. GENEROUS
Refers to money for sex. GROUP ROOM
Room set aside for group sex, generally furnished with wall-to-wall mattresses or pads. Term is prevalent in western US (see MATROOM). GROUP SEX
Swinging; Social-sexual activity between three or more people. GROWTH SWINGING
Social-sexual environment that promotes emotional, personal and social growth HARD CORE
A swing party or swing engagement where sexual interaction is assumed and expected. HARD SWINGING
(see HARD CORE) HEAD
Oral-genital sexual activity; "Giving head" HEDONIST
Lives for pleasure. HETEROSEXUAL
Sexual attraction to members of the opposite sex. HOMOSEXUAL
Sexual attraction to members of the same sex. (See GAY) HORNY
Sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure. HUMANIST
Person who believes in human values, potential, self-respect of the individual, personal freedom and human rights. HUNG
Refers to a man with a large penis. INDOOR SPORTS
Swinging activities in general. INTERESTED IN FRIENDSHIP
Seeks a swinging relationship that includes emotional and recreational values. Used chiefly in personal ads and letters in answer to personal ads LEATHER
A fetish; Sexual stimulation through the wearing of leather garments. LESBIAN
A woman sexually and emotionally attracted to other women (see GAY) MARITAL AIDS
Dildos, vibrators, and other devices used for sexual pleasure of self and others. MASOCHISM
Sexual gratification through receiving pain and humiliation from others. MASTER/SLAVE
Participants in a bondage and discipline sexual relationship (see B&D, BONDAGE, DISCIPLINE) MATROOM
Room set aside for group sex. Principally an eastern US term (see GROUP ROOM). MEET FOR PLEASURE
Will meet for swinging sex; no pretense for social or emotional interaction not directly related to sexual activity. Used chiefly in personal ads and letters in answer to personal ads. MENAGE A' TROIS
Three people, two of one sex, one of the opposite sex in a swinging interaction. May involve an on-going emotional relationship of the participants. {see THREESOME, TRIAD) MORESOMES
More than three people in a swinging interaction. NEWCOMERS
New people in swinging; First-timers NONSMOKER
Does not smoke. If used in personal ad means only those who do not smoke are sought for swinging purposes. OPEN DOOR
(see OPEN SWINGING) OPEN SWINGING
A couple swinging with another couple in the same room; Several or all participating couples together in the same room; (Western U S ) swing party where participants socially mix and are free to swing as couples, in one-to-one pairings and group sex during the progress of the party. ORAL-GENITAL
(see CUNNILINGUS, FELLATIO, HEAD) ORGY
Sexual interaction among several men and women in the same room; group sex. PARTY
Gathering of three or more people of both sexes for swinging. PARTY CLOTHES
Clothing particularly adapted for swing party wear, Includes wear to the party and wear to change into during the party The latter includes robes, lingerie, terry cloth wrap-arounds and other simple wear that is easily removed, shows the wearer to best advantage and often makes selected parts of the body easily available for erotic courting and play. PARTY HOUSE (Western US )
A non-membership swing club offering a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. PASSIVE
Quiet, submissive non-contributor, willing to receive corrective training. Docile and submissive in swinging (see DISCIPLINE) PHOTO
Interested in exchange of nude or sexually explicit photos of self with similar photos of others. PHOTOGRAPHY
Interested in exchange and/or making of nude or sexually explicit photographs, color slides or movies with similar photographs, slides or movies of others; interested in meeting with others for the making of these photographs. P/P
Photo and phone number (used in personal ads). PRO
Professional; i.e. prostitutes or paid escort. RECREATIONAL SWINGER
A person who practices swinging primary as a recreational diversion with no desire for emotional attachment. RESTRAINT
Mild bondage used in sexual fantasy enactments. ROMAN
v Group sex, orgies, the party scene, etc (se CULTURE, ROMAN) RUBBER
Condom means of contraception; sexual stimulation through the look, feel and smell of rubber, usually associated with B&D. SAFE
Used to describe a person who cannot conceive or impregnate; a man who has had a vasectomy. S.A.S.E.
Self-addressed stamped envelope. SGL
Single person. S&M
Sadism and Masochism (see SADISM, MASOCHISM). SINGLE
A swinger without a partner, single or married. SOCIAL
A party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no swinging at a social but privately arranged swinging may follow a social. SOCIAL SWING CLUB
A swing club, generally private membership that offers social and swinging activities including a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. They may also offer educational and travel activities. Usually there is a membership fee and either party fees, party donations or a regular maintenance fee or dues. Party attendance may be restricted to couples though the marital status of the couple is rarely important. SOFT SWINGING
A social, erotic swing party environment where sexual activity is common and available, but not required or assumed. Sometimes used to describe swapping up to, but not including intercourse. The term developed in Southern California in the early 1970's (see HARD SWINGING, HARD CORE). S.T.D. or STD
Sexually transmitted disease. A term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many. These social and moral implications interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem. STR
(see STRAIGHT) STRAIGHT
Non-swinger; A Swinger who is not interested in same sex sexual activity; A person who does not use drugs. SWAPPING
Two couples exchanging partners for sexual activity. SWING MAGAZINE
A periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually carries personal ads of people wishing to meet others for swinging purposes. May also publish articles of general interest to the swinging community. SWINGING
Social-sexual relational recreation among men and women. It is a couple oriented activity but single men and women sometimes are involved. SWINGING LIFESTYLE
Style of living with swinging a major component in recreation, choice of friends, business and social life, and intimate relationships. SWINGING MARRIAGE
Marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic ideals. SUBMISSIVE
(see PASSIVE) THREESOME
Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a swinging encounter. Not the same as a "menage a' trois" in that the latter may involve emotional involvement and a continuing relationship. TICKET
A person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party solely to enable the man to gain entrance. The ticket generally has no intention to swing or is not free to swing. TOYS
Sexual aids (see MARITAL AIDS) TRAVEL
(see CAN TRAVEL) TRIAD
Three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. Not the same as a threesome. TRIOLISM
Used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage (see TRIAD) TUBAL LIGATION
Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the fallopian tubes to make a woman infertile; A method of contraception. Also called a Band Aid Operation in reference to the small incision made just below the navel to enable the cutting and ligation. UTOPIAN SWINGER
A person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals. VASECTOMY
Surgical procedure of cutting and tying the vas deferens to make a man infertile; A method of contraception. VERSATILE
Bisexual. (see AC/DC) VIBRATOR
Electrically run vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another. VOLUPTUOUS
Fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips. VOYEUR
A person who enjoys and is stimulated by watching others in sexual acts. Did we miss one? Please add new terms here: {mos_fb_discuss:36} |
Lifestyle/Swingers Monday, 21 May 2012
Things has changed considerably since the beginning of swinger's era. The air of romance and whole philosophy of swinging with strict rules are no more on the top priority for most people involved in this lifestyle. In fact, if you are not aware of all the peculiarities of swingers' principles , you may think it's just a lusty activities some perverts wish to engage, but every devoted swinger would probably say that they do it to experience a new form of sexual relationships. 
