Lifestyle/Swingers

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Girls Uncorked NYC - A Wild Success!

For those readers who are not familiar with Girls Uncorked, I will explain a little about it. Girls Uncorked is a nationwide organization of straight, bi-curious, bisexual and lesbian women who are sexually curious, open-minded, and looking for a great place to socialize with like minded women. While many of the members of Girls Uncorked are swingers or

enjoy having sex with multiple partners, we are always welcoming of women who have fantasized about being with multiple partners or are simply curious. Meetings are 100% free; women merely bring their own wine or appetizer. I know what you're thinking:...

The Clown

I know you readers have been waiting for a good, juicy Wall of Shame post so here it is. A man who shall herein be called "the clown" came to a pre-Halloween private party accompanied by a good friend of mine. The party was small, about half a dozen couples. I was told that the clown had previous experience with group sex in an orgy situation, and was attractive. However, more important than experience or looks is one's attitude.

As soon as the clown arrived to the party, he started to act like an annoying frat boy. I excused his peculiar behavior for...

Anniversary Party!

On behalf of Rocco and myself, thank you to all our loyal members who have supported Behind Closed Parties and have helped us produce the naughtiest, hottest, and wildest parties in NYC! Rocco and I are part of the swing lifestyle and have been fortunate enough to bring together newbies and seasoned swingers alike and form a community through the School of Sex. New York City lacked events for good looking, open-minded individuals who wish to party in a warm, friendly, upscale and most of all, organic environment (that means no hired help). Part of the reason why the swing scene in NYC is so horrendous is because the men throwing the parties and running the swing clubs are extremely greedy and are not even part of a swinging couple! Why should they mop the jizz off the floor? Why should they screen their guests? Why should they make...

Porn Star of the Week - Jesse Jane

I am starting a new segment on the blog called "Porn Star of the Week." This week's featured star is Jesse Jane (born Cindy Taylor on July 16, 1980 in Fort Worth Texas). You may have seen her in some very popular porn movies including Pirates. Jesse Jane has gotten more mainstream in recent years and even made an appearance on the HBO series Entourage. Jesse Jane is married to Rick Patrick, who is about a foot taller than her.

Good news ladies--Jesse...

Marital Aid Test Kitchen: JimmyJane's Form 2 [Sex Toys]

With a body that—literally—fits into the palm of your hand, JimmyJane's Form 2 is an itty bitty new addition to their family of vibrators. But don't be fooled by the size: this little baby packs a wallop.

JimmyJane is referring to the Form 2 as a rabbit vibe (and given its resemblance to a certain Sanrio character, it's not hard to see why). But don't be fooled: this isn't the Rabbit Pearl you're dealing with. The Form 2 is a world away from the toy that was the toast of the "Sex and the City" set.

For one thing, the Form 2 is for external use only. But don't think that the lack of dual stimulation is a failing: the Form 2 may not do everything, but what it does do, it does very, very well. The two ears (which can stimulate the labia, envelope the clitoris, and whatever else your dirty little mind imagines) are each powered by their very own...

Kinky Nicole Kidman?

According to a recent interview, Nicole Kidman has dipped her feet into some fetish-related activities. When interviewed, Nicole said she has had some kinky fun: "I've explored obsession. I've explored loss and love in terms of being in a grief-stricken place, I've explored strange sexual fetish stuff, I've explored the mundane aspect of marriage, and monogamy."

What was that part about strange sexual fetishes?

"It's a very extraordinary, adventurous place to be: incredibly raw,...

Nothing Lost in Translation

We visited Desire in Cancun, Mexico for the first annual Kasidie takeover. As soon as we got to the resort, we were completely turned on by the erotically charged atmosphere. Almost everyone was completely naked, roaming the resort, relaxing, and playing. We wondered how many hot couples we'd meet; we were extremely excited -- and horny!

As we toured the resort for the first time, I noticed Rocco's eyes locked on a cute Mexican lady. She kept smiling at us. She was with her husband, who began to disrobe by the pool. Whoa there! Before I even noticed his face or athletic body, I was taken aback by the size of h

Jamaica, Oh I Wanna Take Ya

Based on the latest blog poll, I was sad to see many of you have not had the chance to experience a "lifestyle vacation." I must admit, after my recent trip to Desire in Cancun, Mexico, I am hooked on swinger vacations! There is no substitute for vacationing at a beautiful, all-inclusive resort where you can make great new friends and have sex anywhere and everywhere! Even if you're not big on exhibitionism or group, it's a voyeur's dream cum true -- and everyone is really nice!

When our new friends at Desire saw how wild Rocco and I were getting, they all had one recommendation -- go to HEDONISM II! Upon hearing their tales of delicious eroticism, public displays of sexual activities, and orgies, I was convinced that I HAD to experience

A Pleasant Suprise

Rocco and I typically meet couples at parties rather than through online personals sites. The reason for this is rather simple. We, like many of our friends, have been let down by couples that we have met online. Typically, it is the male who is sending correspondence. Many times the woman doesn't even know what her partner is planning. As a result, when it comes time to meet, a last minute excuse often comes into play. We've been through it all -- and the worst is when I get ready (makeup, hair, and a hot outfit) and we receive a last minute call: "Oh sorry, we won't be able to make it; my partner is !" I must say, however, that when I speak to the female half of the couple on the phone early in the "courting" process, the likelihood of a successful meet-up increases dramatically. But even still, it is by no means guaranteed. On the other hand, at a party, if...

A Pleasant Surprise

Kasidie Lifetime Memberships

I don't endorse products or websites that I don't believe in. That's exactly why I have yet to recommend any party in NYC besides Behind Closed Doors... But I wanted to let everyone know about Kasidie, the newest online phenomenon in the swing scene.

For those of you who are not familiar with Kasidie, I would best describe it as Facebook for open-minded, sexually adventurous adults. Since it is essential never to give out your Facebook...

Jimmyjane Afterglow Candle

I am always excited to review multi-task products! So, when Babeland asked me to review a candle that melts body massage oil, I was thrilled! The product is called the Afterglow Candle. Babeland's website suggests lighting up the Afterglow Candle to set a romantic mood, then blow it out, dip the included body brush in the melted wax, and paint the warm oil in areas to be massaged. When heated, the wax liquefies into high-slip massage oil that softens and hydrates the skin. The unique blend of...

Horny Ladies Party

The latest Behind Closed Doors party was hosted by Naughty America porn star Karen Kougar. A week before the scheduled party, we were having trouble with our online reservation system. As you might have noticed, I'm in the middle of a massive overhaul of the School of Sex website which will no doubt be the highest quality lifestyle information portal and FREE social network on the internet. Since we were unable to guarantee any spots with the reservation system, the party operated on a first come, first serve basis to approved guests. We had quite a guest list, filled with hot couples and beautiful single ladies. And then, they all started coming. Normally, we expect a certain percentage of cancellations at every event Read more... - Horny Ladies Party

The Desire at Desire

This is the first post in a series of my adventures at Desire with the Kasidie takeover!

We arrived at in Cancun on Friday, Oct 9 for the first annual Kasidie takeover at Desire. Our flight had been relatively smooth. There weren't any delays on our nonstop flight from JFK, which clocked in at less than 4 hours. After a relatively short cab ride from the airp

ort, we entered the gates which housed Desire along with a few other...

Girls Only Party-Free Event

Where can women go to hang out with other open-minded women in a comfortable, pressure-free environment to chat and share a glass of wine? I am proud to announce that I have started the New York chapter of Girls Uncorked for precisely this purpose.

As a woman in the lifestyle, I know that women interested in exploring their sexuality have no where to turn except skeevy sex parties. Many women are not ready to take the plunge and visit a swingers party. Lots of women just want to meet other women in a neutral location. Unfortunately, almost all of the party promoters that represent the swinging lifestyle are men (yes, even the ones claiming to throw parties "for women by women") and many of them are not even swinge

Run By a Woman

The readers of the blog always ask me to share my negative swinger party experiences with them. After the last swing party I went to which was NOT hosted by me, I almost swore off
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Marital Aid Test Kitchen: The LoveHoney Sqweel [Sex Toys]

For years, innovation in the sex toy industry has been limited to figuring out how to make a toy vibrate harder, for longer. But recently there have been signs that manufacturers are starting to—to cop Apple's phrase—think different.

Last year, we were presented with the very praiseworthy SaSi from Je Joue, which turned the idea of what a sex toy can do completely on its head: instead of vibrating or penetrating, the SaSi's primary stimulation comes from moving pressure created by a small nub on the toy's underside. Now LoveHoney has their own innovative toy: meet the Sqweel, a rotating wheel of ten pink rubber tongues.

The idea behind the Sqweel is relatively simple: as the wheel rotates, the...

How Sex Kitten Unwinds

It seems like everything has been going wrong at work this week: international correspondents received incorrect documents, clients are withholding payments and my secretary forwarded an unedited email to a client. Overworked, stressed and drained-what's a girl to do? After a rough week at work, I like to unwind with a thick, hard dick or two.

Some professionals in the city like to drink their sorrows away. Others like to smoke up or shoot up. The only thing I'm smoking is a juicy dick and the only thing I'm drinking is yummy cum or take a shot of it on my chest. I invited one my favorite fuck buddies, Nigel, over to come help me de-stress. Nigel, always a gentleman, showed up on time. I was already creaming after thinking about fucking him and Rocco all day. We talked for a little before we started turned on one of Totally Tabitha's pornos. I love how Tabitha takes on really big cocks. I watched Tabitha cream all over...

Horny Girls from Around the World

Behind Closed Doors presents the Horny Girls from Around the World Erotic Event on Saturday, October 17th in Manhattan. This party is open to select couples and single women, only. What do I have in store for this party? At 10PM, porn star and swinger, Karen Kougar, will help host Swing School. If you have never been to a BCD party before, I encourage you to check out Swing School. It is a great way to learn about the swinging lifestyle and is also the best way to meet other, like-minded couples and single women.

I am very excited to have an expert lap dance instructor, Kimberly from StripXpertease, come out